Is your relationship bringing you more pain than joy?
Have the same situation/issue recurs even though you tried addressing it?
Are you consistently thinking about breaking-up whenever there is a fight?
Do you feel tied down in your relationship?

Most of the time, we aren’t even aware we need to move on from a relationship until it becomes evident. Some of us logically know we should move on – yet we linger on anyway.

Relationships begin with you because you are half of any relationship you join.
You need to remember to ask yourself questions about your relationship. Every night before you sleep, you need to occasionally think about your current relationship with your daily reflections and sort through your own feelings and opinions about it. Introspection and self-knowledge is important, not only when your relationship is having problems, but when you are deciding whether to take it to that next level. As the saying goes, know yourself.

The best relationship is when two people always give in to reduce conflicts and understand each other. We always mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave when we love someone. Assumptions are the termites of relationships. Trust is the glue of life and it's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships. When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences, then love has a chance to blossom. Ultimately, relationship is about looking at the imperfect things perfectly.

Sometimes, one have to understand that holding on to a relationship may not be the best choice for both parties, especially when it is preventing both parties from growing as individuals. But then again, every time when you want to give up, ask yourself why you decided to walk the path with him/her in the first place? Why have you been holding on for so long for? Are you going to give up just like that without the will to overcome the test of love?

`A relationship is like a rose. How long it lasts, no one knows.

-Signing off @ 1:48 AM-